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Asking for help: emergencies lesson
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Tell staff or a trusted person what you see and ask for help. Practice the moment in a short Surefoot lesson.
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You are at a party with a close friend. Over the last few minutes, they have started acting very differently from usual.
Your friend is not acting like themselves and you are not sure what is wrong.
What do you do?
- Tell staff or a trusted person what you see and ask for help.
- Keep it quiet so nobody gets in trouble.
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Tell staff or a trusted person what you see and ask for help.
Describe what you observe and ask a trusted person or staff for help. Do not promise immunity from discipline: campus policies and laws vary. Possible medical emergencies need prompt emergency help.
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Tell staff or a trusted person what you see and ask for help.
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“I need help. My friend is not acting like themselves.”
Sources: RAINN
Questions about “Asking for help”
Why is it best to tell staff or a trusted person when a friend acts unusually?
Reporting what you see to staff or a trusted person helps your friend get immediate medical care or support if they are experiencing a medical emergency.
Source: RAINN
How can I ask someone for help if my friend is acting strangely?
You can seek help directly by saying, "I need help. My friend is not acting like themselves."
Source: RAINN
What should I do if staff or a trusted person is not available nearby?
If no staff or trusted people are around and your friend may be in danger, call 911 immediately for professional assistance.
Source: RAINN
Why shouldn't I keep quiet to protect my friend from getting into trouble?
Keeping quiet puts your friend at risk because sudden changes in behavior can signal a medical emergency that requires fast attention rather than worry about school rules.
Source: RAINN
How can I support my friend after getting them help at a party?
You can help your friend afterward by staying with them in a safe space until they recover or until medical professionals arrive.
Source: RAINN
Last updated October 12, 2026.